| KainAsylum ( @ 2009-06-09 23:32:00 |
| Entry tags: | therapy |
The Duality of Perfection
When you introduce yourself to someone, you show them the most perfect version of yourself.
Your potential employer, mate, or cool new friend of a friend.
You start with the version you've deemed fit for presentation to the world:
Beautiful, intelligent, charming, and successful.
Perfection is to be expected.
But the more we expect perfection, the more we notice the cracks within ourselves in stark contrast.
And then we have a choice...
to either drown in self-judgment until we give up on stopping the bleed from the ever-widening cracks.
or embrace these imperfections and find a way to thrive, regardless.
We are beautiful because of our imperfections.
And that is how we survive.